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 More than 100,000 children nationwide are waiting for families. They are called "special needs" children in some locations and may include:
- Children who have been neglected or abused
- Children who are older (especially ages 10 - 16)
- Children of racial minorities
- Children from one family who must be placed together (sibling groups)
- Children who are physically, emotionally, behaviorally, or mentally challenged
Children and teens who have been abused or neglected often develop coping behaviors that present significant challenges to adoptive families. These children may feel insecure and may not trust adults. The idea of being a valued member of a family is often difficult for them to accept.
Adopting a child is a lifelong commitment that can be challenging and rewarding. A family adopting a child with special needs must be strong, flexible, and able to provide stability and security in a nurturing environment. The family must also advocate for their child and be willing to use community resources.
 You can adopt a child with special placement needs if you are single, married, or divorced; live in an apartment; or have a modest income. Additionally, many children benefit from experienced, older parents. Our goal is to find the best family to meet the child's needs.
These are the answers to frequently asked questions about adopting an older child.
- In most states, you can be married, single, or divorced.
- You can own a home or live in an apartment.
- You can be young, middle aged, or older. Many children benefit from experienced, older parents.
- You do not have to be wealthy.
- You do not need a college education.
Our goal is to find the best family to meet the child's needs.
Older child adoptions are usually state-funded, which means you may not have to pay agency fees. Medical subsidies and financial assistance may be available until the child reaches 18 years of age, regardless of the family's income. Tax credits may be available as well.
 Call Bethany for information about how you can adopt a child who is waiting for a family. We want to meet you and tell you how you can adopt one or more of the many waiting children. After you have learned more about adopting an older child, your adoption worker will explain the entire process. We will work with you to help you decide which child (or children) would best fit into your family.
Preparation for adoption includes:
- Full disclosure of information about the child(ren)
- Information about neglect and abuse, and the child welfare system
- Education about the child's needs and the special parenting skills required
- Visits which allow your family to adjust to your new family member(s)
Your adoption worker will maintain close contact with your family after placement and will offer assistance, guidance, and support until the adoption is legally finalized.
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