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Virginia - Book Reviews
The Adoption Eclipse
Choices Count
Ines Arnsberger Hatch
Reviewed by Ellen Foster, BSW, Bethany Christian Services
 The Adoption Eclipse follows the journey of a couple through each step toward building their family through parental placement adoption. From the initial decision to adopt, to the waiting process of being chosen by a birthmother, through the pregnancy of the birthmother, and finally the homecoming of the baby with its adoptive family, this book strives to realistically portray the process of some families. Marsha and Brad have wanted to grow their family but were unable to have children on their own. They decide that adoption is the right option for them and begin their process. Before their home study is even complete they receive a call that a birthmother has chosen them. Brad and Marsha wrestle with this news, trying to decide if this is the right child, and if they choose not to accept this baby if another one will come along. Ultimately they decide to wait. Soon after this decision they receive another call from a birthmother who has eight months left in her pregnancy. The couple again has to weigh their options and decide if the possibility of being parents is worth the risk, both financially and emotionally. After much deliberation the couple decides to commit to this child.
The remainder of the book is their long, but ultimately very rewarding experience of adopting a child of their own. The book emphasizes Marsha’s deep compassion and concern for Sandra as the mother of her child. Marsha provides comfort and support for Sandra throughout her pregnancy.
The author touches on some key points in the book. Through the story she emphasizes the long and sometimes scary process of adoption. She highlights the risks of adoption, such as emotional and physical difficulties of the child. The author also points out that although Sandra has decided to make an adoption plan, those plans are not finalized until after she has delivered the baby and signed the papers.
Overall, The Adoption Eclipse does an excellent job of presenting the reality of the parental placement adoption process. The narrative format makes for a quick read and leaves time to discuss the issues that are brought to the forefront in the book.
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