Birthparent FAQ
Frequently asked Questions about Making an Adoption Plan…
What if I’m not sure about making an adoption plan?
Will you still work with me?
At Bethany, we understand that you are facing one of the most important decisions of your life and you will not be pressured into any decision – the choices are yours to make. A number of the women we meet with decide to parent their child and we are able to help them get connected with the community resources they need to make their plan a reality. They are able to move more confidently into parenting knowing that they looked at all of their options and truly chose to parent, rather than feeling like there were no choices before them to make. Many other women we meet with decide that making an adoption plan is the right choice for them and are able to move forward confidently as well, again knowing that they thoroughly investigated their options and made a decision that they can be proud of. Whether you are unsure about the choice that is right for you and feel like counseling to help you make your decision would be helpful, or you know you want to make an adoption plan and are looking for the best family for your child and straight forward answers on how to move forward, Bethany can help you.
What are the laws about adoption in my state?
Depending on what state you live in, our birthparent counselors will explain the laws regarding adoption in your state and how they affect you and your child.
Is there anyone I can talk to whose been in a situation similar to mine?
We will connect you with other people who have been in a similar situation to find out what they felt or did that was helpful to them, and provide emotional support and encouragement. We have worked with birthparents from all walks of life, single and married, of all ages. Whatever your situation is, we work to locate someone who has experienced a similar situation to talk to.
Do I have to come to your office?
No, Our Birthparent Counselors will make any accommodation you may need. We can meet with you in the privacy of our office, or in another place of your choosing, even your home if that is more convenient for you.
Who else is involved in the process? What about my family and friends?
At Bethany, we care about you and know that other people do too. We encourage you to involve your family, or other key people in your life, in your planning process, and we can meet with them as well and help them work through their own feelings about your pregnancy so that they can give you the emotional support you need. We also recognize that you may be in a situation where, for one reason or another, you are going through your pregnancy on your own. We always respect your right to confidentiality and to involve as many, or as few, people in your plan as you desire. We can also help support you by talking with your baby’s birthfather,
What about my pregnancy expenses?
Bethany provides free legal services to put your adoption plan in place, and, when needed, providing assistance with pregnancy-related medical and living expenses, either directly or through referrals to community organizations that specialize in your area of need. If you need health insurance during your pregnancy, you may qualify for Medicaid, and your Bethany counselor can help you obtain coverage. Bethany can usually cover any medical expenses not covered by Medicaid.
For more information please call 845.987.1453 or 1.800.BETHANY, or fill out our contact form.
