For Birthparents

Questions About Adoption


How can adoption be good for my baby and me?
If you are not ready to be a parent, you can still give your baby the gift of life by choosing adoption. Bethany will work with you to select a stable, loving family to care for your baby. After birth, you can see your baby, name your baby, and spend time with your baby. If you so choose, you can get updates on your child's progress or have ongoing visits throughout your child's life while you continue your education or career goals.

Can I choose a family for my baby?
Yes! Bethany has couples from a variety of backgrounds that have been screened and approved. There are additional options such as choosing a friend, an acquaintance, or someone who has been recommended to you. Bethany will discuss these options with you.


How soon after birth can my baby go to the parents I choose?
The timing of your child's placement depends on three factors:
  • Your preference for the timing of placement
  • Legal aspects of the adoption, which may vary from state to state
  • The cooperation of the birthfather
Many birthmothers want their baby placed with the adoptive family directly from the hospital. Some women prefer to place their baby in temporary care while they consider their adoption decision.

How much will my child know about me?
That depends on what type of adoption plan you choose: open, semi-open, or confidential. Bethany will encourage you to provide your complete medical and social history to your child, no matter what type of adoption plan you make. You may choose to share you identity and where you live with the adoptive family. If you've made an open adoption plan, you can have ongoing, direct contact with your child and the adoptive family.

Does the birthfather have any rights?
Both you and the birthfather have rights. If you disagree about adoption or you no longer have a relationship with him, Bethany will work with the birthfather and/or the courts to determine if his rights can be terminated.

Can my child find me if he or she wants to search someday?
The laws in your state determine when and how your child may have access to information in the adoption file. Your caseworker will explain the current laws as they apply to your adoption plan.

Do I need an attorney or do I pay Bethany to assist me with the adoption?
You do not need an attorney and there are no costs to you. Bethany will handle all the legal details for you and the birthfather.

For more information call us at 773.264.0200 or fill out our contact form