Families Helping Families in Crisis
Safe Families for Children is a national movement of compassion that gives hope to families in crisis. This network of volunteer host families help parents who need temporary care for their children as they work through unmanageable or critical circumstances.
Bethany Christian Services mission is to protect and enhance the lives of vulnerable children and families. Safe Families is an innovative approach that can accomplish this mission. Because of this, Bethany Christian Services partnered with the Safe Families after being approached by its founder, Dr. David Anderson of Lydia Home Association in Chicago. Dr. Anderson approached Bethany due to our size and scope as an organization with a solid reputation in social services across the USA and globe.
How this movement is different than Foster Care or Adoption
Safe Families is an alternative to foster care. In foster care, children are placed into homes through the courts and foster families receive compensation for their care. Through Safe Families, Host Families receive no compensation for caring for children, and parents voluntarily have their children stay with them. The goal of the Safe Families ministry is to offer support in a time of need and reunite children with their families in a stronger home environment. This temporary care for children in need gives parents time to establish stability in their homes.
Because Safe Families is not foster care, the children are not placed in the care of the state. Bethany staff work with the parents during this transition to identify steps to regain stability and reunite with their children quickly and safely. Parents may have their children live with a Host Family because of any number of challenges such as:
A Host Family's Story
We first learned about Safe Families at our church. Following that Sunday morning worship service, we went home and promptly began an online search for any additional information we could gather about the program. Most powerful were the videos depicting real-life interviews and stories of Host Family experiences. We must have watched the story about the Hiveley family a dozen times. It was important to us to not just fulfill a responsibility but to be in a family's life long enough for them to feel cared for deeply.
In our eight months with Safe Families, we have been a host to three families
Being a Host Family for Safe Families isn't easy. It's hard work. It's not convenient. It doesn't always go as planned. It disrupts your everyday life. But, it's worth every sleepless night and every extra load of laundry. It's worth going out of your comfort zone and stretching yourself emotionally and spiritually. All you need to do is make a little room in your life, in your home, and in your heart. Whether it's a short-term or long-term relationship, you are caring deeply for people who need to be deeply cared for.
Watch the video that inspired this family:
Ways to Get Involved
Can you open your home to a family in crisis? Reach out with God’s love and compassion to embrace those who need help in your community.
Open your home to nurture a child in need as an alternative to foster care.